We are living in a age where women can self sustain, have a career instead of staying at home. At some point in life, she might or would’ve earn better than the man. How do we balance the power play here, where traditionally a man would be the breadwinner to the house.

I have been watching the drama series, The Crown. I can see how difficult was it for the Duke of Edinburough to kneel before the Queen. For love, she took his career, his name as well as his pride. It takes a confident man to carry all that. A man had to be self suffice and understand that the women may not depend on him for financial needs, decision making.

Suffice to think Ben did not has what it takes to be self suffice. He need to feel he’s the provider. BUT, i really do not depends on him that way. I only needed him emotionally to be present not giving me SOLUTIONS all the time, when I didnt need one.

Dear men, we women just need your listening ear, to let us fret it out. Simple as that. By doing so, it doesnt make you lesser.